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Mini guide to
mindful wellbeing

Life can be challenging. Of course, it can also be wonderfully fulfilling – but the tough truth is that we can face all sorts of physical and emotional challenges at different times in our lives.

 

While we can’t solve these directly for you, we want to help you to support yourself through whatever may be challenging you. As a coaching and mindfulness social enterprise, that’s exactly what Rising Minds does with people day in and out: helping you to deal best with challenge and change, so that you can thrive in their lives and work.

We have seen countless times with many people how mindfulness can help to navigate the choppy waters of life. It’s about getting more ground beneath your feet. This is ultimately what mindfulness can do, so that you’re better placed to take good care of yourselves and make wise decisions for today and tomorrow. So in this short guide, we look at how to apply mindfulness to the reality of your life. We also include some really good top tips on maintaining general wellbeing.

 

In the video on this page, we also guide you through a simple but highly effective meditation that teaches you the core components of mindfulness, as set out below.

The ABC of Mindfulness

Let’s start with a brief overview of mindfulness – what, why and how. The starting point is a basic distinction between two modes of mind: autopilot (or doing mode) and intentional (or being mode). Autopilot evolved in our prehistoric past to keep us safe and functioning. It takes care of basic tasks and activities, and also alerts us to danger. It’s essential to our survival. It’s also highly useful in carrying out all our routine activities without us having to think about them, like getting dressed, walking, talking.

 

However autopilot mode isn’t so useful when it comes to solving complex tasks, including and especially those that involve complex and difficult emotions. Yet we use autopilot so often that sometimes we get stuck here, particularly when something happens that we perceive as a threat.

 

This is when it’s great to activate the other mode of our mind – intentional – located in our ‘clever’ neo-cortex. This part is better suited to the job of solving complex problems and emotions. It’s capable of highly sophisticated, analytical and imaginative thinking and problem solving.

 

This is where mindfulness comes in, because the best way to step out of automatic repetitive thinking and to step into intentional mode is to create a gap or space for awareness and reflection. And this is what mindfulness is all about. We use a simple ABC model of mindfulness:

 

Awareness: paying gentle attention in the present moment to your experience in your mind, body, and environment, without judgement. This helps create a gap or space for reflection.

 

Being with: having created space, this allows our brain and body to process our experience. The mindfulness approach here is to notice thoughts, emotions and body sensations, and to allow them to run through us without getting overinvolved in them.  This opens up the possibility for the third step below.

 

Choosing wisely: by doing the A and B we open up access to the wiser parts of our brain where we can see things more clearly, and what’s in our best interests. This can include how to understand and process our current challenging reality and all its implications, and to make good decisions about what to do with our time and energy.

Top tips for applying the wisdom of mindfulness for cultivating wellbeing

  • It’s extremely helpful to establish a mindfulness routine and practice – ideally first thing in the day, even if only a few minutes.

  • Be vigilant around how much news and social media you engage with. It can be quite anxiety-provoking. One dose of news a day is enough.

  • Notice strongly triggering thoughts and write them down. It’s also really useful if you can find people to share those thoughts with. Chances are you’re not the only one to have had them.

  • Find positive distractions: keeping busy with activities that are interesting, nourishing and stimulating is a BRILLIANT WAY to keep anxiety at bay.

  • Kindness: This is perhaps the most important of all, and mindfulness can open up the portals to natural kindness to self and others. Carve out time for gentle, self-caring activities as far as possible. Also, don’t give yourself a hard time for the fact that you may experience difficult emotions at times. This is an entirely natural part of being human.

5 top tips for general wellbeing

 

The following five top tips are taken from the New Economics Foundation’s ‘Five ways to wellbeing’. They are highly effective in establishing a more resilient and positive outlook on life.

 

1. ConnectFeeling connected to others can make all the difference in your mood and outlook.

 

2. Be activeExercise and physical movement are not only good for your body, but for your mind too.

 

3. Take noticeThis is the mindfulness thing again! It’s another way of applying it throughout your day. Take time to look at things in your environment afresh…just notice how things actually are…

 

4. Keep learningIf you have any spare time, learning or developing new skills can provide a powerful boost to wellbeing. There are a great many free online courses. Or perhaps you might want to pick up some activity that you used to enjoy doing but have neglected for a while (e.g. playing a musical instrument, knitting, etc.)

 

5. GiveAgain, if you have spare time, you may feel able to offer your support to others who may need it. Being of service to someone else sometimes really helps take the focus away from your own concerns, at least for a while.

We hope you’ve found this short guide helpful. We don’t pretend that it will solve some real-world challenges you may be facing. However, we know from our experience working with many people over the years that if you are able to take basic good care of your mind and body by following some of the wisdom above, then you are far more likely to be in a good overall state to deal with difficulty and to make good decisions about how to respond best. We wish you all the best.